Whit Sheppard, 59, died peacefully on December 27, 2023, at Greenwich Hospital, after a bravely-fought battle with melanoma.
Born in New York City on December 8, 1964, Whit was the beloved son of Linda C. Waterman, the late Christopher R. Sheppard, and the late Mike Waterman.
Whit moved to Greenwich as a very young boy, and attended the Greenwich Country Day School and Brunswick. He graduated from Deerfield Academy, Southern Methodist University, and also earned an MBA from the University of Texas and a master's in journalism from the University of Oregon. With his brilliant mind and insatiable passion for travel and adventure, Whit wore many hats and enjoyed stints in New York, Dallas, Austin, Eugene, Taos, Paris, Melbourne, Richmond, Boston, and Greenwich.
French teacher, ESPN journalist, Morgan Stanley analyst, Boston College tennis coach, and independent school advisor were among Whit's many professional roles. Whit was also very involved in the recovery community and served as a sponsor and mentor in Alcoholics Anonymous for nearly forty years, lifting up those struggling with addiction and touching many lives.
All who knew Whit would agree that far and away his greatest and proudest role in life was being an incredibly devoted father to his amazing daughter, Emily Vaughan Sheppard. Whit and Molly Taylor Sheppard shared their daughter, Emily, with love and grace, even after divorcing many years ago. Nothing brought Whit more joy than spending time with Emily, whom he adored beyond measure. He especially loved sharing his passion for travel with her as they created incredible memories together, exploring Australia, South Africa, Mauritius, Anguilla, Mexico, the UK, and France, on their epic father-daughter adventures.
Whit was a bibliophile, rackets enthusiast, golfer, dog lover, foodie, linguist, and globetrotter. He had a great sense of humor and loved words, cultures, languages, animals, and babies and children of all ages. Whit was a gentleman, charming and kind, old-school. He loved a good meal, a great book, tide rides in Martha's Vineyard, a fresh croissant, chai tea lattes, and playing tennis, paddle, and squash. Ever handsome with a twinkle in his eye, Whit will be sorely missed.
In addition to his daughter, Emily Sheppard, mother, Linda Waterman, and ex-wife, Molly Sheppard, Whit is survived by his brother, Neil Waterman and sister-in-law, Jen Waterman, his sister, Brooke Stahl and brother-in-law, Ryder Stahl, and many adoring nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts, uncles, friends, and his beloved rescue dog, Auggie.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Whit's memory to the Melanoma Research Foundation ( melanoma.org ) or to the ASPCA ( aspca.org ).
Ed. Note: So gratefeul that Whit (l) attended our 40th reunion...
On the heels of Adam’s great news, I'm sorry to have to share less positive news with you and our classmates.
I’ve been treated for metastatic melanoma since first being diagnosed in June 2020. Two different rounds of immunotherapy treatment, representing the most current standard of care for my illness, have not turned the tide and my disease has progressed significantly over the past few months, as detailed by a recent PET scan. Though I have some new lesions or “mets” (metastases) and some spread to my pelvis and hip area, I am not symptomatic and not in physical discomfort, which my oncologist at Dana Farber terms “amazing” and “lucky.” I start a third drug combo on Friday with hopes of arresting disease progression and perhaps even turning the tide.
The timing is ironic in that my daughter, an 8th grader, is currently looking at boarding schools and I am the point person for that. She’s more ready than I was to go away and a far sight more mature at a similar age. I’m excited to see her take this next step in her life and she remains my North Star and guiding light. I hope this finds everyone healthy and happy and counting the many blessings that have accrued to so many of us.
Whit Sheppard couldn't believe his luck. In a second chance encounter on the Vineyard...
"Two in one week!
Adam Weinberg on the Vineyard to spread the word about Denison at a reception on novelist Amor Towles’s front lawn overlooking the Vineyard Sound. Adam is a terrific and engaging public speaker and his message is strong. Great to see him for the first time in —gulp!— nearly 40 years."
Whit Sheppard joined Nigel Bentley’s staff in January 2022 as an assistant coach. He brings a diverse tennis skill set to the Heights, having taught professionally in Boston, Texas, Virginia and New Mexico and also covered the ATP and WTA Tours for several years as a Paris-based journalist for ESPN.com. He counts among his tennis mentors the late Harry Hopman, the longtime Australian Davis Cup team captain, and Roy Emerson, winner of 12 Grand Slam singles titles.
Sheppard has covered the four majors multiple times and been a correspondent for Radio Wimbledon and color commentator for ESPN/DirecTV live coverage of the Australian Open. He has provided digital content to the ITF during Davis and Fed Cup competition from Miami to Moscow.
A native of Greenwich, Conn., and a graduate of Southern Methodist Univ. (BA, Journalism), he holds master’s degrees from the Universities of Texas (MBA) and Oregon (Literary Journalism). A fluent French speaker and also proficient in Spanish, he and his daughter Emily live in Boston’s South End and enjoy skiing in Vermont, summers on Martha’s Vineyard and international travel.
Kudos to Whit Sheppard for just deciding to drive out to campus from Boston on Choate Day! Strong showings by all teams led to a thorough trouncing of the Wild Boars, especially V Football on Jim Smith Field, 50-26. This was the 99th rendition of the rivalry so plan on descending on Wallingford, CT next fall for #100!
So glad that Whit was able to bump into Chris Flagg and PB Weymouth too!
Whit Sheppard posted about the "2nd annual West Chop Club Pro-Am on the Vineyard. Thx to David McNamara and his great team for doing all the nitty-gritty to make it happen, to the amazing pros who made we amateurs feel like kings for a day and to my clutch partner, the young Aussie Jeremy Taylor, headed back to Memphis U. to wreak havoc upon AAC opponents. And to the winners, Will Willis and former world #21 John Lloyd, who proved too tough for Jeremy and I to overcome twice in the same day. ‘Til next year!"
cropped photo shows Whit on the right, and bonus alum, George Loenig '84, on the left...
Two middle-aged guys ate some tasty barbecue and talked families, hockey, Boston, the good ol' days in JW and other sundries. Shouldn’t have waited this long to do it!
I’ve given it quite a lot of thought and believe that the benefits of sharing this outweigh any cons:
So ... I was diagnosed with malignant melanoma (there’s no such thing as a non-cancerous melanoma) in late May after the removal of a seemingly innocuous mole on my back. I then had surgery to remove tissue around the mole site and to biopsy a few lymph nodes taken from under my armpit(s). That biopsy confirmed spread “promoting” me to the next stage of treatment, which included CT, PET and MRI scans (all of which came back negative for additional metastasis). I did have an anaphylactic reaction to some radioactive contrast dye during the MRI - got violently ill within 30 seconds of being injected, swollen eyes (Edema - no fun at all), hives, the works.
Drove down to Duke Univ. Hospital a few days ago for a 2nd opinion on treatment options. Managed to squeeze in 9 holes of after that visit, so it wasn’t all bad I start prophylactic (i.e. preventative) IV immunotherapy treatment on Wednesday, July 15, every six weeks for the next year. The treatment is designed to wipe out any lingering malevolent cells and to prevent any recurrence or further spread.
My oncologists at VCU Health say my prognosis is good and that I have every chance of living a long, productive life. My chances of that outcome are way better than if I’d been diagnosed even five years ago.
Perhaps you know someone who’s been affected by skin cancer, perhaps not. Mine likely resulted from the cumulative effects of UV radiation, e.g. sun exposure. If there’s one thing you can do for me, it’s simply to be smart and mindful about your time in the sun and vigilant about applying SPF30 or higher on yourselves and your kiddos.
I have excellent at-home support, as you can see below, and my daughter, her mom and my family have all been great throughout. A cancer diagnosis indeed brings occasion to “embrace the suck,” but in my case it has also brought some gifts in its wake. I’m focused on those positives and my own healing moving forward. And looking forward to a few restful weeks on Martha’s Vineyard in the wake of a challenging past couple of months. Blessings to all who read this Whit
POSTSCRIPT: Thank you, thank you everyone far & wide for the kind words/thoughts in response to the post. It reminds me that I’ve met special, caring people at each of my various stops.
Another fun Happy Hour on Zoom occurred - and it was great to see some new faces! Welcome to Charlie Gagne (CA), John Cianciolo (RI), Sean Nottage (Bahamas), Scott Pryce (VA) and Bob Keirstead (IL). Thanks for returning Doug Cruikshank (NY - points for the DA hat!), Jim Wareck (CA), Whit Sheppard (VA), Eric Suher (MA), Chris Flagg and PB Weymouth (NY) and JK in CO.
We learned that Cianciolo is engaged, Keirstead is retired from the Air Force, Pryce works in commercial real estate and the Bahamas lock down has been tougher, and more effective, than most other countries in the world. We also learned that Jim Wareck is Jewish and that JK has no idea how to "print screen" on his Mac desktop.
Look for another invite from "john.g.knightATdu.edu" (AT=@) for DA83 Zoom HH #3 - to be held SATURDAY, MAY 23 at 6 pm ET. Share the invite with anyone else in the class you'd like to see on the call - JK might not have their email address and it might have never made it to them.
Thanks to those classmates who braved the first Class of 83 Zoom Happy Hour!
Great to See and hear from Brian Steward (TX), John Knight - Don Hindman and Will Piersol (CO), Adam Feiges (IA), Eric Suher and Ben Patton (MA), Dean Singewald (CT), Jim Wareck and Alex Kerr (CA), Whit Sheppard (VA) and Chris Flagg - PB Weymouth and Doug Cruikshank (NY).
We all agreed to do it again and to try and expand the attendee list!
One classmate also recommended a book to the group: "The Classmates: Privilege, Chaos and the End of an Era" by Geoffrey Douglas. Big picture - it follows five classmates from the class of 1962 at St. Paul's School - John Kerry among them". Sounds interesting!
Class of 1983 Zoom HH #2 will be May 2 at 6 pm ET. To get the invite - ask any of the attendees from HH #1 or email "jgknight83 AT gmail.com". (HINT: use @ for "AT")
The more the merrier!!!
Kudos to Dean Singewald for the DA Dining Hall as his virtual background! Maybe we should call it "Sit-Down Happy Hour"?
Times of stress and doubt are often reversed with the actions of a helper. Even Mr. Rogers knew that.
35 years ago, the 19-year-old boy at the far left in the first photo was stopped on suspicion of DWI at 1:30 on a Tuesday afternoon in Dallas. That seminal event proved to be a springboard towards an entirely different chapter of life that has spanned 34+ years of evolving recovery and a measure of maturation ... I’m pleased to announce that I have recently launched a private coaching/mentoring practice, building upon the work I’ve been doing with individuals referred to me by client schools like Deerfield, Mercersburg and others.
The man in the bottom photo will be pleased to leverage his accumulated training and related life experience to help adolescents and adults access innate sources of wisdom and help guide them into more placid waters. Particular expertise in abuse and addiction recovery, self-esteem/self-worth issues and issues related to the boarding-school experience. Referrals appreciated and welcomed. For more info, contact me at 804-402-0050 or whit.sheppard@comcast.net
Whit Sheppard is getting in his miles on the Vineyard this summer (near W. Tisbury) until mid-September and welcomes outreach from any classmates nearby. On island phone is 508-693-0579. There's scenery and a furry companion as well!
By some magic coincidence, Whit Sheppard and daughter Emily, while vacationing in Australia, bumped into Margarita (and Manning) Curtis! Looks like fun was had by all.
I had the chance to return to campus and speak last week, a nostalgic return to the place we called home for formative years in adolescence. While in many respects the focus in recent years has been on the ways in which the school and certain individuals didn’t conjure up their best while I and others were students, the truth is you didn’t receive my best, either. Far from it, actually. Perhaps you’ll better understand why after hearing the talk I gave to current students.
So, though out of touch with so many of you for so many years, concurrent with a long estrangement from our alma mater, I’d like to let you know that I’d be glad to rejoin the ranks of our class and to get to know you as the men you have become and are today. And to have you know me as the man I have become. Few things would please me more. I hope this finds you all well.
Best,
Whit
whit.sheppard@comcast.net
(*Link below is a video recording of Whit Sheppard's talk to the Deerfield Community at School Meeting on Wednesday, September 26th. Total run time is about 30 minutes.) https://vimeo.com/292777205/1b73fdce1d
"This past Saturday I found myself in an interesting, if ironic, place: sitting on a stage in the Paul Mellon Arts Center at our arch-rival Choate, where I had been asked by Choate's Head of School, Alex Curtis, to help walk their community through the aftermath of the release of a report confirming that more than 20 former Choate students had been molested and/or sexually harassed by faculty and staff at the school over a period of decades. The report’s release and subsequent response to it had generated intense coverage in The Times and The Globe for much of the previous month and this was an opportunity for their alumni community to reflect and to heal. I was honored to be asked to participate.
As you can imagine, there was an obligatory Deerfield joke/reference at the outset as the panel’s moderator, a Choate grad, said “our next panelist, Whit Sheppard, is the founder of Abacus Advisory, a member of the NAIS/TABS task force on educator sexual misconduct and a graduate of … ” before faux-stammering “Deer … Deerfield Academy …” which elicited whoops and laughter from the 300-350 Choate alums present, a humorous start to a difficult communal conversation that lasted roughly 75 minutes. I can’t tell you what a satisfying feeling I got from crossing the Deerfield-Choate “electric fence” that had previously governed so much of my limited interaction and knee-jerk reactions and thoughts over the years about our rival to the south. It turns out that there are really good people there, and they treated me with the utmost kindness and respect during my 24 hours on campus. All in all, a wonderful healing experience for me—and I hope for their extended school community, which has taken a lot of hits recently.
My participation in the Choate panel discussion has its roots in the work I’ve been doing with other schools, including at St. George’s, which our classmate Eric Peterson has led for more than a dozen years, that have been seeking to reconcile the less savory elements of their institutional pasts with the otherwise fine and important work they do on an ongoing basis. I have learned so much doing this work and it has yielded fresh perspective on the four challenging and life-altering years I spent in the Pocumtuck Valley with many of you.
I hope this finds my former classmates well and hope that there will be opportunity in the future to break bread with at least some of you and to hear your stories of life post-Deerfield, your kids, your families etc. I’d really like that." Best, Whit Sheppard
Well, Whit was person enough to come forward and Deerfield has become the new playbook for old sex abuse scandals. But now the playbook is open again at St. George's and Eric Petersen and Will Hannum '82 are reading it as fast as they can...
Former student forces R.I. prep school to confront its past
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Anne Scott, photographed in the Cambridge office of her lawyer, Eric MacLeish.
Anne Scott entered St. George’s School as a 10th-grader in 1977, just a few years after the prestigious prep school first admitted girls at its campus in Middletown, R.I. She was a good student, and a three-sport athlete, from the suburbs of Wilmington, Del.
But a month after she arrived, a field hockey injury brought her into the orbit of the school’s longtime athletic trainer. He molested and raped her, and threatened to come after her if she told anyone.
For years, terrified and ashamed, she did not. Finally, in her mid-20s, her life a shambles of diagnoses and hospitalizations, she told her parents, who took her to see Eric MacLeish, an attorney who would later gain renown representing abuse victims of Catholic priests. It was his first sexual abuse case.
MacLeish filed a lawsuit seeking $10 million, but when the school pushed back aggressively, Scott backed off — and moved abroad to rebuild her life.
This year, almost 40 years after she first arrived at St. George’s, Anne Scott felt strong enough to pursue her unfinished business with St. George’s.
Reunited with MacLeish, she has sought not money but accountability from the school — an end to what she and her attorney call a pattern of coverup and denial concerning the alleged sexual assaults of multiple students at the school in the 1970s and 1980s. They have urged the school to launch an investigation, to inform alumni of its findings, and to set up a therapy fund for victims.
“This was the school’s dirty secret,” said MacLeish. “They’re an educational institution with a mission statement of respect and compassion, and they acted in a way that is completely at odds with that.”
St. George’s officials didn’t act immediately on Scott’s demand, but they did act. Months after MacLeish and Scott voiced their concerns — and shortly after the Globe contacted the school for comment on the case — officials sent a letter on Nov. 2 to alumni saying they had received “multiple credible reports of sexual misconduct at the school, ranging from unprofessional behaviors to outright sexual assault” by former employees. It also named Scott’s assailant.
It was a breakthrough moment. Scott’s courage has moved others to come forward this fall with their stories and their sorrows. And as the school completes its investigation, the full measure of this dark chapter may soon be known.
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STEW MILNE FOR THE BOSTON GLOBE
A view of the chapel and old school at St. George's School in Middletown, R.I.
Founded in 1896, St. George’s has educated several Astors and Vanderbilts, Howard Dean, and Prescott Bush, father of President George H.W. Bush. Today, it has 365 students in Grades 9 through 12 and charges $56,000 annual tuition for boarders.
It is the latest in a string of New England prep schools that have had to deal with allegations of sexual impropriety, including Deerfield Academy, Fessenden, and the Berkshire School.
At St. George’s, in the fall of 1977, Anne Scott had been sent for treatment of her back to Al Gibbs, the gruff, cigarette-smoking athletic trainer, who began to assault her in his locked training room. He told her that if she reported him to anyone, he would come after her and that she “would be in trouble,” according to court papers. When she objected, “the trainer threatened to send a note to her coach and adviser, requiring that [she] return for ‘treatments.’ ”
ST. GEORGE’S SCHOOL
Al Gibbs, in a 1980 yearbook photo.
Her grades dropped. She called her parents begging to come home. For a while, she simply stopped talking. “I just kind of stopped caring,” Scott said.
Her sister Liz, who is four years older, recalls those days vividly. “I remember we sent off a happy, healthy, vibrant girl and when she came home for Thanksgiving, she was definitely changed. She was withdrawn, anxious, obviously upset, but we didn’t have any idea why. It was very scary for the family.”
She returned to school and, Scott said, the assaults resumed.
According to her therapist’s affidavit in the 1989 lawsuit, she suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder, dissociative disorder, anorexia, bulimia, and major depression because of the assaults and was hospitalized several times between 1983 and 1987.
When she filed her suit against the school, Scott faced a different kind of pain, in the tactics of St. George’s lawyers. They told the court that Scott either could be lying or could have had consensual sex with the trainer, who was 67 years old when the assaults began. She was 15.
Court records revealed that four other girls had told school authorities that Gibbs had also molested them, MacLeish said.
School attorneys also sought to change it from a “Jane Doe” case and reveal Scott’s real name. “Maybe people will come forward and say the plaintiff is a, with all due respect to those in the court, has a tendency to lie, and that would be relevant, also,” said defense attorney William P. Robinson III of the Providence firm Edwards & Angell. (In 2004, Robinson was appointed to the Rhode Island Supreme Court. Robinson did not return calls from the Globe.)
But Judge Jacob Hagopian of the US District Court in Rhode Island denied the school’s motion to dismiss and admonished its attorneys that the teenager could not consent to such “detestable” acts. “It violates the criminal laws of the United States,” he said.
In the end, it was Scott who dropped the case. School attorneys had investigated and deposed her parents and were preparing to depose neighbors. “I was 27 years old, I had struggled, and then they came down on my family like a ton of bricks,” she said. “I just wanted it all to go away.”
St. George’s would not agree to the dismissal unless Scott signed a gag order that prohibited her from speaking about the case. MacLeish advised against it.
“The school did everything they could to intimidate Anne,” said MacLeish, of the Cambridge law firm of Clark, Hunt, Ahern & Embry. “It worked.”
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STEW MILNE FOR THE BOSTON GLOBE
The school has 365 students in grades 9 through 12.
After she dropped the suit, Scott, who had earned a PhD in folklore and anthropology from the University of Pennsylvania, moved overseas. She and MacLeish lost touch.
But the case continued to haunt him. Over the years, he tried to find Scott, who was working in maternal health in the West Bank, in HIV/AIDS prevention in Senegal and Bot-swana, and for a nonprofit in Indonesia. Independently, MacLeish, himself an alumnus of St. George’s, contacted the school in 2012, writing current headmaster Eric Peterson about the lawsuit he had filed concerning events at the school under former headmaster Tony Zane.
Around the same time, in 2012 or 2013, Peterson heard from another alumna. “She had been abused by Mr. Gibbs,” he said in an interview. “She asked for help with counseling costs and we gave it.”
In 2013, Scott returned to the United States. She now runs a nonprofit in Virginia. “I’ve worked very hard to get strong,” said Scott, who is 52. “You live with it and you get better at managing it, but the damage runs deep.”
At Scott’s and MacLeish’s urging, the school sent two letters to alumni, in April and August, saying it was launching an investigation into possible sexual misconduct. Scott and MacLeish told the school that the letters failed to give specifics or offer relief to victims.
But the most recent letter, sent Nov. 2 and signed by Peterson and board chair Leslie Heaney, finally named Gibbs, who died at 86 in 1996. It also said there were two other perpetrators who no longer live in Rhode Island, but did not identify them.
The letter apologized for what happened and for the school’s failure to respond. It also said it will establish a fund for counseling costs related to the sex abuse and will arrange victims’ support gatherings.
Scott said that for her, the latest letter resolves the major issues. “I was really heartened by it and sensed a shift toward action and clear, concrete steps,” she said.
But she and MacLeish question the independence of the school’s investigation, which is being conducted by attorney Will Hannum, whose law partner is St. George’s legal counsel. “It’s an inherent conflict of interests,” MacLeish said.
Harvard Law professor Larry Lessig, who has known Scott since they were students at Penn, has signed on as co-counsel to MacLeish. Lessig, who was abused by the choir director as a student at the American Boychoir School in Princeton, N.J., said St. George’s needs to make therapy support “immediately available and not filtered through a lawyer.”
Scott said it took Hannum more than a month to respond to her request for therapy costs, and when he did, on Dec. 9, he said that she “may be eligible” for assistance, and asked for documentation.
Scott was upset. “It’s distressing on so many levels to submit to the school’s authority to make a determination on whether or not they will reimburse me . . . I’d rather pass than place the school in that position of power over me ever again.”
Peterson, who arrived at the school in 2004, said he hopes the investigation will conclude by the year’s end. He told the Globe that the two unnamed perpetrators were male faculty members who had left the school by 1988, and that their victims were male. According to his letter, the school is working with law enforcement “with respect to next steps” regarding them.
“The heart of the issue for me is that the school today is trying to do what’s right and trying to help alumni who need it,” he told the Globe. He declined to say how many victims have come forward since he sent out the letter.
After the school’s first letter in April, Peterson told MacLeish that tens of women came forward to complain about Gibbs, a fact that Peterson confirmed to the Globe, though he says not all were “firsthand reports.”
But one firsthand report came from Katie Wales, class of 1980, who went to see Gibbs after a horseback riding injury. He began to molest her and took photos of her naked in the school’s whirlpool, she says, which he then circulated among the boys at school.
“The taunting by the boys was horrible,” said Wales, 53, who lives in Granby, Conn. She said she went to see Zane in 1979 about Gibbs. “He told me I was crazy, making it up to get attention, and that I had to see the school shrink,” Wales said.
Zane says today that he believed Wales at the time, but thought that she came to him in confidence and “didn’t authorize me to go to Al Gibbs.” He added: “Gibbs declared his innocence until the end, so I was operating on hearsay.”
But Wales said that after the experience, her school life was miserable, and she began drinking and smoking marijuana. By the end of her senior year, she was into heavier drugs, and the week before graduation, she was expelled. “This whole thing kind of screwed me up,” said Wales.
When she got the school letter in April, Wales reported her experience to Hannum and has met with Peterson. She also posted a comment on Facebook. Among the alumnae who responded was Joan Reynolds.
Reynolds, class of 1979, was 13 years old when she entered St. George’s as a freshman. Now 54, she is a teacher who lives in Idaho and shared her story with the Globe — a story she said she had told no one but her husband and, recently, St. George’s.
Her father, grandfather, and great-grandfather were St. George’s alumni. Her father was director of development and alumni affairs at the school, her mother was director of day student affairs, and Reynolds lived on campus with them. The Reynolds family has for 35 years sponsored an annual scholarship at the school.
Reynolds played three sports, and sometimes her female coach would send her to Gibbs. “She’d say, ‘Al wants to see you for hamstrings,’ or this or that,” Reynolds said. There was no girls’ locker room; Gibbs’s training room was next to the boys’ locker room. All three women who spoke to the Globe recalled the sound of Gibbs locking the door behind them.
When she was first sent to Gibbs, Reynolds said, he started off by showing her how to “properly dry” her breasts. “He’d talk about what a good athlete I was, how I had to get healthy for these games. He’d tell me to strip down. There was this metal hot tub and he’d hang the towel far away. He would hug you, these suffocating hugs.”
Reynolds refused to take off her underwear; Gibbs never raped her, she says, but groped her on the training table. This went on periodically for two years, she said — until she got her first boyfriend, a strong athletic type.
After graduation, Reynolds moved out west, cutting all ties with the school. When, at her mother’s urging, she returned to campus for the first time in 2006 to be inducted into St. George’s sports hall of fame, she became physically ill.
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STEW MILNE FOR THE BOSTON GLOBE
The Zane dormitory at St. George’s School.
Zane, now 85 and living in New Bedford, said after he heard from students about Gibbs, he fired him in 1980. “He was doing things he shouldn’t have done as a trainer,” Zane said.
He did not, however, report the incidents to law enforcement, as required by law. Asked why not, he responded, “Was that true in Rhode Island in 1980?”
By 1967, MacLeish said, all 50 states had mandatory reporting laws about child abuse, which means Zane was required to call child protective services and the police. “If that had occurred, then Gibbs would have been stopped, treatment would have been provided to children, and a tremendous amount of human suffering would have been avoided,” MacLeish said.
In 2002, St. George’s named a new girls’ dorm after Zane.
Asked about the school’s aggressive response to Scott’s lawsuit, Zane said: “Instead of bringing a lawsuit against the school, she could have called me up and said, this happened to me. Don’t blame us for trying to defend ourselves against a $10 million lawsuit.”
Gibbs would have been 70 when he left St. George’s. According to an obituary in the Providence Journal, he had previously spent 30 years in the Navy.
Though they appreciate that the newest letter names Gibbs, the women who have brought forward complaints are upset that it doesn’t mention Zane. They want Zane Dormitory renamed and his portrait removed from the dining hall.
“At the very least, they shouldn’t be enshrining him,” said Scott. “It undermines the credibility of what they’re doing.”
Peterson has met twice with Scott, who says she is grateful that he apologized to her.
Asked what he apologized for, he said: “I’m sorry she was hurt. I’m sorry she came away from the school with her experience with Gibbs and thereafter feeling the school didn’t care for her, because the school does. I’m sorry she was wounded in all the ways she was.”